Kindness and Love for Valentine's Week

Activity Ideas: Week of February 12, 2024

🪨 Activity 1: Kindness Rocks

🌲 Activity 2: Helping Hands Tree

💌 Activity 1: Notes of Kindness

🧪 Activity 2: Kindness Potions

💌 Activity 1: On the Hunt for Love Notes

🎈 Activity 2: Kindness/Love Ballon Toss

🌱 Activity 1: Plant a seed of Love

🍃 Activity 2: Nature’s Helpers Scavenger Hunt

🍩 Activity 1: Donut Sprinkles!

🏃‍♀️ Activity 2: Obstacle Course

Monday: Growing Kindness

🪨 Activity 1: Kindness Rocks

Materials Needed

  • Rocks (smooth, palm-sized for painting).

  • Non-toxic paint (washable for younger toddlers; more variety for older ones).

  • Paintbrushes (thicker handles for younger toddlers; various sizes for older ones).

  • Markers (washable, non-toxic).

  • Protective smock or old clothes to wear.

  • Paper plates or a plastic sheet to work on.

Instructions

For Younger Toddlers:

  • Setup: Lay out the protective sheets and place a rock on a paper plate for each toddler. Pour out a few basic colors of paint onto a separate plate.

  • Explaining the Activity: Talk about being kind and how we can spread kindness like beautiful colors.

  • Creating the Kindness Rock: Help them coat their hands in paint (if they're comfortable) and press their hands onto the rock or use a brush to apply paint.

  • Adding Features: Guide them in using markers to add simple designs like hearts or smiley faces on the rock once the paint is dry. You can also help by outlining shapes they can fill in.

For Older Toddlers:

  • Setup: Provide them with their own set of paints and brushes on a paper plate. Let them choose their rock.

  • Explaining the Activity: Discuss the idea of spreading kindness through actions and words. Explain how these rocks can be a small act of kindness when we give them to someone special or leave them for others to find.

  • Creating the Kindness Rock: Encourage them to think of a design or message that represents kindness and paint it on their rock. They can use brushes for detailed work.

  • Adding Features: Once the paint is dry, they can use markers to add details or write a kind message like "Be Happy" or "You Rock."

Cleanup

  • Involve the toddlers in cleaning up by washing brushes and putting caps back on markers. Turn it into a fun activity by singing a cleanup song.

Why It’s a Good Activity

  • Emotional Expression and Empathy: Encourages toddlers to think about kindness and the impact of their actions on others.

  • Fine Motor Skill Development: Painting and drawing refine fine motor skills with age-appropriate challenges for each group.

  • Creativity: Allows for creative expression through art, with the theme of kindness inspiring their designs.

  • Social-Emotional Learning: Both age groups learn about the value of kindness and how simple acts can bring joy to others.

🌲 Activity 2: Helping Hands Tree

Materials Needed

  • Large poster board or paper.

  • Non-toxic paint (green for leaves; brown for the trunk).

  • Paintbrushes or sponges.

  • Markers or crayons.

Instructions

For Younger Toddlers:

  • Setup: Prepare the poster board by drawing a large tree trunk. Pour out some green paint onto a plate.

  • Explaining the Activity: Talk about how trees give us shade and fruits, just like how we can help and be kind to others.

  • Creating the Tree: Dip their hands in green paint and help them press their handprints around the tree trunk to create leaves.

  • Adding Features: Once the paint is dry, you can draw or write simple acts of kindness on each handprint leaf with a marker, like "share," "hug," or "smile."

For Older Toddlers:

  • Setup: Let them help draw the tree trunk with brown paint or markers. Provide green paint for leaves.

  • Explaining the Activity: Discuss how every act of kindness helps us grow stronger and more connected, like the branches of a tree.

  • Creating the Tree: Encourage them to create handprint leaves around the tree. They can also use a brush to add details or texture.

  • Adding Features: Once dry, they can think of specific acts of kindness they have done or want to do and write them on the leaves with markers or help dictate them to you.

Cleanup

  • Clean up together, emphasizing teamwork and how helping clean up is another form of kindness.

Why It’s a Good Activity

  • Community and Connection: Highlights the importance of acts of kindness within the family and community.

  • Gross Motor Skills: Making handprints involves arm movement and coordination, suitable for all toddler ages.

  • Creativity and Imagination: Lets children be creative while thinking about the concept of kindness.

  • Understanding Cause and Effect: Older toddlers can connect the idea of their actions (leaves) contributing to the growth of something beautiful (the tree).

Tuesday: Kindness is Magical

💌 Activity 1: Notes of Kindness

Materials Needed:

  • Cardstock or heavy paper.

  • Safety scissors (use under supervision for older toddlers; adults cut for younger ones).

  • Glue stick.

  • Crayons, markers, and stickers for decorating.

  • Pre-made art pieces or photos (optional, to glue onto the postcards).

  • Postcard stamps.

  • Addresses of friends, family, or local community helpers.

Instructions For Younger Toddlers:

  1. Prepare the Postcards:

    • As a parent, pre-cut the cardstock into postcard sizes. Younger toddlers enjoy watching and learning, so explain what you're doing as you prepare.

  2. Decorate the Postcards:

    • Encourage your toddler to decorate with crayons and stickers. Demonstrate how to use the glue stick if attaching pre-made art or photos, assisting them in choosing where to place each piece on the cardstock.

    • Offer large stickers or stamps for easy handling and sensory exploration.

  3. Message and Addressing:

    • For the message, you can write a simple "Sending smiles your way!" and have your toddler add a sticker or a handprint alongside. Hold their hand and guide them in making a mark with a non-toxic ink pad or finger paint.

    • Address the postcard together, saying out loud each part of the address as you write it to introduce them to the concept of where it’s going.

Instructions for Older Toddlers

  1. Prepare the Postcards:

    • Let your older toddler try cutting the cardstock with safety scissors, guiding them as needed. This helps develop their fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination.

  2. Decorate the Postcards:

    • Provide a variety of decorating materials and challenge them to create a specific scene or use certain colors. They can also select a piece of their artwork to glue onto the postcard.

    • Encourage them to think about the recipient and personalize the decoration accordingly, fostering empathy and thoughtfulness.

  3. Message and Addressing:

    • Help your toddler write a short kindness message on the postcard. For those practicing their letters, you can write the message in light pencil and have them trace over it.

    • For the address, explain the importance of each part (name, street, city, zip code) and assist them in writing it down, enhancing their understanding of geography and community.

  • For Both Ages: Make mailing the postcards an exciting event. Talk about how their postcards will travel to reach their friends or family, sparking imagination and curiosity about the world.

Why It’s a Good Activity:

  • Creativity and Expression: Both age groups get to express themselves creatively, with younger toddlers focusing on sensory exploration and older toddlers on more detailed artistic expression.

  • Fine Motor Skills: From simple sticker placement to writing and cutting, this activity supports fine motor development appropriate to each age level.

  • Understanding and Compassion: Sending postcards to loved ones teaches empathy and the joy of giving, laying the foundation for emotional intelligence.

🧪 Activity 2: Kindness Potions

Materials Needed:

  • Empty, clean bottles or jars (plastic is safer, especially for younger toddlers).

  • Food coloring or paints

  • Glitter

  • Small funnels, spoons, or scoops.

  • Labels and markers to decorate and name the potions.

  • Ingredients for the potions: These can be symbolic, like "smiles" (yellow pom-poms), "hugs" (soft fabric pieces), "giggles" (small, jingly bells), and "love" (heart-shaped confetti or stickers).

Instructions:

For Younger Toddlers:

  1. Prepare the Potion Base:

    • Fill the bottles or jars with water, adding a few drops of non-toxic paint to each to create different colored "potions." Do this step together, letting your toddler watch the water change color.

  2. Add the Kindness Ingredients:

    • Pre-select safe, large items (like large pom-poms or fabric hearts) that won't pose a choking hazard. Guide your toddler in choosing which kindness ingredient to add to each potion. Describe each ingredient's meaning as you add it, fostering language development.

  3. Seal and Shake:

    • Securely close the bottles. Then, have fun shaking them up to see the magic happen. This can also be a good physical activity, engaging them in shaking and moving.

For Older Toddlers

  1. Create the Potion Base:

    • Older toddlers can help add the paint to the water themselves, using droppers or spoons for fine motor skill development. They can mix colors to see what new colors they can create.

  2. Add the Kindness Ingredients:

    • Allow older toddlers to select from a wider variety of ingredients. They can use a funnel or spoon to add smaller items, practicing precision and coordination. Encourage them to think about what each ingredient represents and whom they would like to share their kindness potion with.

  3. Decorate and Label:

    • Provide labels and markers for older toddlers to name their potions and decorate the bottles. They can come up with creative names like "Giggle Elixir" or "Hug Brew."

Why It’s a Good Activity:

  • Fosters Creativity and Imagination: Mixing potions allows toddlers to use their imagination and think creatively about the abstract concept of kindness.

  • Sensory Play: The activity provides a sensory experience through the visual pleasure of colors, the tactile experience of different textures, and the auditory joy of shaking bottles.

  • Teaches Emotional Intelligence: By associating emotions and actions with tangible items, toddlers start understanding the importance and impact of kindness and caring behaviors.

Wednesday: Valentine’s Day 💌

💕 Activity 1: On the Hunt for Love Notes

Activity Description: Create a scavenger hunt around your home with hidden notes, each expressing something specific you love about your toddler. These notes can be paired with small, safe objects or Valentine-themed decorations to make finding them more exciting.

Materials Needed:

  • Small pieces of paper or cardstock for writing love notes.

  • Safe, toddler-appropriate objects or Valentine's decorations (e.g., plush hearts, fabric flowers, heart-shaped pillows) to hide with the notes.

  • A basket or bag for collecting the items.

Instructions:

  1. Write the Love Notes:

    • On each piece of paper, write a simple message expressing something you love about your toddler. Phrases can range from "I love your smile" to "I love how you help me." Tailor the complexity and language to your child's understanding.

    • For younger toddlers, including a small drawing or sticker on the note can add a visual cue they can enjoy even if they can't read the words themselves.

  2. Set Up the Scavenger Hunt:

    • Hide the notes around your living space, placing them at toddler-eye level and in relatively easy-to-find spots. Pair each note with a small object or decoration to make each discovery visually exciting.

    • Ensure all hiding spots are safe and accessible to prevent any frustration or accidents.

  3. Explain the Game:

    • Tell your toddler that you've hidden special notes around the house, each one telling them something you love about them. Explain they'll be going on a hunt to find all these hidden messages of love.

    • For older toddlers, you can make it more challenging by giving them clues to find each note.

  4. Start the Hunt:

    • As your toddler finds each note, read it out loud together. Celebrate each discovery with a hug, a high-five, or a happy dance, making each find a moment of joy and bonding.

    • Collect the found items and notes in a basket or bag as you go along.

  5. Reflect Together:

    • Once all the notes have been found, spend some time talking about each one. This can be a wonderful opportunity for older toddlers to express their thoughts and feelings, and for younger toddlers to bask in the positive affirmations and attention.

Why It's a Great Activity for Valentine's Day: This "Hunt for Love Notes" activity combines the excitement of a scavenger hunt with the deep emotional connection of personal love notes, making it a perfect fit for Valentine's Day. It not only provides a fun, engaging experience for your toddler but also reinforces your love and appreciation for them in a tangible and memorable way.

🎈 Activity 2: Kindness/Love Balloon Toss

Materials Needed:

  • Balloons (preferably in Valentine's colors like pink, red, or white).

  • Permanent marker.

  • Soft, comfortable area to play (e.g., a living room with cushions or a grassy backyard).

Instructions:

For Younger Toddlers:

  1. Prepare the Balloons:

    • Inflate the balloons to a manageable size for small hands. On each balloon, write a simple word or draw a symbol of kindness (e.g., heart, smiley face) with a permanent marker.

  2. Balloon Toss:

    • Sit with your toddler and gently toss a balloon back and forth between you. Each time you catch the balloon, say something kind or express a loving gesture like a hug or a smile.

  3. Balloon Hunt:

    • Scatter balloons around the room and encourage your toddler to find them. As they find each balloon, read out the word or describe the symbol to them, reinforcing the idea of kindness with each discovery.

For Older Toddlers:

  1. Balloon Preparation and Discussion:

    • Similar to younger toddlers, but involve them in writing the words or drawing symbols on the balloons. Discuss what each word or symbol means (e.g., "Heart means love," "Smiley means happy").

  2. Interactive Balloon Toss:

    • Make the toss game slightly more challenging by increasing the distance or adding a fun rule like "Don't let the balloon touch the ground." After each catch, encourage your toddler to say something kind or perform a kind gesture.

  3. Kindness Sharing:

    • After the balloon hunt or toss, sit down with the collected balloons. Pick each one and ask your toddler to think of a specific act of kindness related to the symbol or word on the balloon (e.g., "Share toys" for a heart, "Give a compliment" for a smiley face).

Why It’s a Good Activity:

  • Physical Activity: The balloon toss and hunt offer a safe, engaging way for toddlers to develop motor skills and stay active.

  • Emotional Development: This game introduces and reinforces concepts of kindness and love in a tangible, interactive manner.

  • Language Skills: Discussing the symbols and words on the balloons enhances vocabulary and comprehension, especially with the older toddler's more reflective component.

Thursday: Caring for Nature 🍃

🌱 Activity 1: Plant a Seed of Love

Activity Description: Introduce toddlers to the basics of plant care by helping them plant their own seeds. This hands-on activity not only teaches them about how plants grow but also nurtures responsibility and patience as they care for their plant.

Materials Needed:

  • Small pots or recycled containers (like yogurt cups with holes poked for drainage).

  • Potting soil.

  • Seeds (choose something easy to grow, like sunflowers, peas, or a Tickle Me Plant).

  • Watering can or spray bottle for gentle watering.

  • Labels and markers to name their plant.

Instructions:

For Younger Toddlers:

  1. Prep the Pot: Fill the pot with soil, leaving some space at the top. Let your toddler feel the soil, explaining it's the plant's home.

  2. Plant the Seed: Show them the seed, then gently push it into the soil together. Cover it lightly with soil.

  3. Water the Seed: Help them use a spray bottle to water the soil, teaching them that plants need water to grow.

For Older Toddlers:

  1. Choose the Seed: Let them choose which seed they want to plant. Discuss the plant it will become.

  2. Plant and Label: After planting the seed, have them write or draw on a label for their pot. They can name their plant or draw the plant they hope to see.

  3. Care Plan: Talk about how they will care for their plant, including watering, sunlight, and love.

Why It’s a Good Activity:
  • Educational Value: This activity introduces toddlers to the basics of plant life cycles and the needs of living things (water, soil, sunlight), laying a foundational understanding of biology and ecology.

  • Responsibility: Caring for a plant teaches toddlers about responsibility and nurturing. Watching a seed grow into a plant due to their care can be a powerful experience, reinforcing the importance of regular care and attention.

  • Sensory Development: Handling soil, seeds, and water engages toddlers' senses (touch, sight, smell) and enhances fine motor skills through the actions of scooping soil, placing seeds, and watering.

  • Emotional Connection: Naming their plant and watching it grow helps build an emotional connection to nature, fostering a sense of empathy and care for the environment from a young age.

🐾 Activity 2: Nature’s Helpers Scavenger Hunt

Activity Description: Create a scavenger hunt that encourages toddlers to engage with and observe the natural world closely, promoting an understanding of the ecosystem and how we can help protect it.

Materials Needed:

  • A list of simple nature items to find (e.g., leaf, stone, flower, twig). Use pictures for younger toddlers and words for older ones.

  • A bag or basket for collecting items.

  • A garden or park (if accessible) or indoor plants and nature-related items if outdoors is not an option.

Instructions:

For Younger Toddlers:

  1. Simplified Hunt: Focus on finding big, easy-to-spot items. Celebrate each discovery with claps and a brief talk about the item's role in nature (e.g., "Leaves give us shade and air").

  2. Sensory Exploration: Encourage them to touch and see the items (with supervision to ensure safety), discussing textures and colors.

For Older Toddlers:

  1. Detailed Hunt: Include more specific items on the list (e.g., a feather, a seed pod) and talk about why each item is important for the environment.

  2. Observation Skills: Ask them questions about each item they find, like "Why do you think this leaf is this shape?" to encourage critical thinking and observation.

Why It’s a Good Activity:

  • Environmental Awareness: Participating in a scavenger hunt that focuses on finding and observing natural items helps toddlers become more aware of their environment. It encourages them to notice the diversity and beauty of the natural world, promoting a sense of wonder and curiosity.

  • Physical Activity: The scavenger hunt motivates toddlers to move around, explore, and interact with their surroundings, contributing to their physical development and coordination. It's an enjoyable way to encourage outdoor play and exploration.

  • Critical Thinking and Observation: For older toddlers, asking questions about the items they find and discussing their importance in the ecosystem enhances observation skills and critical thinking. It prompts them to consider how each element fits into the larger picture of nature.

  • Empathy for Nature: By engaging with the natural world in a respectful and curious manner, toddlers learn to appreciate and empathize with living things and their habitats. Understanding the role of each item in the scavenger hunt can lead to early environmental stewardship and a desire to protect and care for nature.

Friday: Donuts + Movement = Balance

🍩 Activity 1: Donut Sprinkle Kindness

Activity Description: Combine learning about colors, counting, and acts of kindness with a fun, donut-themed activity that culminates in a delightful snack time.

Materials Needed:

  • Paper cut-out donut shapes from colored paper or craft foam.

    Multicolored paper or foam sprinkles.

  • Markers or crayons.

  • Glue sticks (for attaching the sprinkles to the paper donuts).

  • Real donuts for a snack (optional, considering dietary restrictions).

  • Tweezers or child-safe tongs for older toddlers.

Instructions:

For Younger Toddlers:

  1. Color Sorting:

    • Introduce the paper or foam sprinkles and help toddlers sort them by color into different containers. Use the paper donuts as a base for sorting, each donut representing a color category.

  2. Counting Sprinkles:

    • Encourage toddlers to glue a specific number of sprinkles onto their paper donut. Count together as they add each sprinkle, reinforcing number recognition and counting skills.

  3. Kindness Connection:

    • For each sprinkle added, mention a simple act of kindness (e.g., sharing toys, saying "please" and "thank you"). Explain how each sprinkle represents a small but significant act of kindness.

For Older Toddlers:

  1. Advanced Sorting and Counting:

    • Challenge them to sort the sprinkles by color and count them before gluing them onto the paper donuts. Introduce simple arithmetic concepts by asking them to add or subtract sprinkles.

  2. Fine Motor Skills Practice:

    • Use tweezers or tongs to pick up the sprinkles and place them on the paper donuts, enhancing their fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination.

  3. Kindness Reflection:

    • As they work on their donut, have older toddlers think of times they've experienced or shown kindness. Discuss how sprinkling kindness around can make the world a sweeter place, just like sprinkles on a donut.

Wrap-Up: Snack Time

  • Conclude the activity with a special snack time featuring real donuts. This can be a great opportunity to further discuss the theme of kindness, sharing, and enjoying the sweet rewards of being kind to others.

Why It’s a Good Activity:

  • Sensory and Educational: This activity engages toddlers' senses and helps develop their skills in color recognition, counting, and fine motor coordination in a fun, interactive way.

  • Promotes Kindness: Linking each sprinkle to an act of kindness reinforces the importance of kind actions in a memorable, visual manner.

  • Rewarding Experience: Ending the activity with real donuts provides immediate positive reinforcement, making the learning experience enjoyable and memorable.

🏃‍♀️ Activity 2: Kindness Obstacle Course

Objective: Build an obstacle course that requires toddlers to complete tasks involving acts of kindness and cooperation, promoting physical activity, teamwork, and understanding of kindness in action.

Materials Needed:

  • Soft play items like tunnels, cushions, and foam blocks to create obstacles.

  • Simple task cards that depict acts of kindness (helping to pick up toys, giving a compliment, sharing a toy) — these can be visual cues for younger toddlers or written tasks for older ones.

  • A timer (optional) to add a sense of gentle urgency without pressure.

  • Ribbons or balloons to mark the start and end of the course.

Instructions:

  1. Set Up the Obstacle Course:

    • Arrange the soft play items in your available space to create a safe and engaging obstacle course. Incorporate stations where toddlers must perform a kindness task to proceed.

  2. Explain the Rules:

    • Gather the toddlers and explain the course. Emphasize that the goal is not just to finish but to complete the kindness tasks along the way. For younger toddlers, you might guide them through the course, demonstrating the tasks.

  3. Run the Obstacle Course:

    • Allow toddlers to take turns navigating the course (if you have more than one kiddo playing). Encourage older toddlers to complete the kindness tasks independently, while assisting younger ones as needed.

    • Celebrate each act of kindness with cheers and claps, reinforcing the positive behavior.

Why It’s a Good Activity:

  • Promotes Physical Activity: The obstacle course gets toddlers moving, jumping, and crawling, which is great for their physical development.

  • Teaches Kindness Through Action: Integrating kindness tasks into the course shows toddlers that kindness is not just a concept but something that can be practiced in fun and active ways.

  • Fun and Engaging: This activity wraps up the day with excitement and laughter, ensuring that the lessons of kindness are associated with positive, joyful experiences.